Its so embarrassing to know these things. She follows everyone around wanting attention and could use better training. Incorrect. He goes on and on about how he would never choose to have a dog. I have seen forums about SO or children having allergies and severe asthma attacks because of pets, and all these animal lovers comments are to get the SO or child allergy pills and shots but no matter what do NOT get rid of the pet and do not turn the pet to an outdoor pet. I hurt inside feeling the way I do about this dog, and whenever I try to talk to my boyfriend about how I feel he just says its stupid your jealous of a dog, its just dumb, everyone loves my dog. Weve been together 2 years, lived together for 1. I have made it clear that if another animal comes into the house, I will clear the entire house out and I will drive them all to a kill shelter on the other side of the state. Sorry for the monologue! Anyhow, my wife and my kids think I am a grumpy man because I am not happy living with the dog. It has been 22 years and I strongly dislike having a dog in the house. I started using sanitation wipes and putting the dishwasher on sanitation cycle. Not all people are equal. A pets companionship is not altruistic, unless it goes out and gets a job and helps contribute to the functioning of the home and is able to articulate advice to you on living life in this world as a human. Mid January, we adopted a shelter dog. So I can not even let my purse be on the floor! She constantly is dropping her slobbery toys in my lap. Weve been married almost four years and the dog died from old age after the first three years of my marriage to her owner. He cant even use the bathroom w out her whining to come in. Weak minded as they are chose to side with my ex because they believed his lies about my bruises. Turns out theyre the ones who took your steak eh? I feel a relationship should be a balance.. I said bye. Please help!!! And he is okay with it!! I knew this dog was hurting. ..please i need advice. I have also asked him to politely not allow the dog on the couch for the same reason no one wants to be sitting on dog fur when they come over to visit or to smell like a hound. You and your partner dont have to agree about everything. I am really glad that I read through these comments. He makes my life miserable every time he calls he stupid or stupid fn dog. Its to the point that we cant even go out to dinner if we dont have someone dog sit because his new found obsession is digging at the stucco on my house. Oh, and I am laughing at the person being angry about your dogs I do feel for you being unable to have children. I think this would be cruel, so start as you mean to go on if you wish to put your dogs best interest at heart. Nothing major maybe a couple pieces of clothing in a laundry basket, then an unplugged phone cord and finally she went after the couch :\ my husband was not happy at all. He scratches people, pisses on the floor to get peoples attention. Hes had this dog for six years prior to me, so shes been with him for a long time. They are the selfish ones with no respect. And then all those hairs EVERYWHERE and a constant smell of ammonia of all the pee in the house. They think that were overreacting because we dont like fur on our clothes. I am now sleeping on the couch. I did a huge mistake by overlooking a huge red flag, but I dont regret adopting the cat. The dog doesnt really do much damage these days, still finds a corner in the living room to pee (Ive got nice oak floors), still find things in the trash that are chewed on (my SO doesnt bother saying anything, I just happen to see it when I put things in the garbage). Its really sad because dog owners who do this never care about how anyone else feels or about their own cleanliness and surroundings. Were never too old or too young to learn about ourselves and our significant other and make our human relationship the truly beautiful experience it can be. For the first months after we moved, he would sometimes say that he misses his dogs, even saying that he would still sleep with his dogs whenever we would have them, despite him knowing I cant sleep and dont want to be in a dirty bed. The thing is we were supposed to be moving in together when he took her on. Your health is number 1! Unfortunately, the hair is still an issue. I kept thinking, whats wrong with this picture? I think if your boyfriend isnt willing to work with your feelings and change some of his dogs behaviors (and his own), then maybe you wont ever truly have the loving relationship you deserve. (Sigh) Were trying to find solutions in the meantime. Its not about choosing a dog over someone, its about being too different. I do not hate my girlfriends dog I am just worried about our relationship because she works so much its hard for her to start taking the steps to end the anxiety and fear and because she was wrongly crate trained as punishment its impossible to rewire the dogs brain to thinking its a safe haven. These are both 70lb monsters mind you! When he's there, he may just totally fall for one of the available dogs. Thank you! Its the most annoying thing ever! From here, I knew that my husband should be the one to choose her, because I love all Boxers. Not a word to me. He began to cry immediately and it woke my girlfriend up and she yelled at me. I didn't think much of who cared for biscuit at the time simply because it wasn't none of my business. Some husbands/boyfriends decide to rehome their dogs as a result of being exhausted by endeavoring to provide sufficient exercise on a daily basis. How on earth was I supposed to know that someone was going to treat their dog like an infantile god-being? HOLD YOUR OWN GROUND! The dog doesnt know a leash nor rules. The dog recently bit a groomer (had to get stitches) and also viciously attacked my foot while I was trying to get my dogs toy away from him (he destroys toys instead of playing with them). Should you have gotten the dog without consulting him? Just like people sometimes dont like other people. And my dog is the only one that can get into trouble. I refuse to allow some brat of an animal ruin things that I have worked hard and paid for. I just want him to be safe as my dog wants his food. Hang in there. I was raised around dogs, cats, birds, turtles, and fish. My boyfriend will get up off the couch just to see is beau is staring inside. Sign up and Get Listed. I do not want our marriage to end because of an animal that is not even part of our family. Dogs are great for narcissists; they put their human on a pedestal, revolve their world around the human, and never object. So I am dealing with a situation with my husband agreeing on taking care of his brothers dog for a YEAR as he and his family gallivant across Europe, without consulting with his entire family. My girlfriend has a Yorkie, which I came into the relationship with her having. Me and my son usually enjoy its company. A muzzle doesnt help either, because my wife hates the stigma attached to dogs with a muzzle on, and she wants people to know what a loveable creature that piece of s*** is. If this is the situation, your husband/boyfriend is probably incorrect. Hahahaha to funny & true! But, I highly recommend you consult a dog behaviorist prior to meeting a relationship advisor. I just dont know what to do. There is NO excuse for a dog that bites a person!!!!! I feel like an asshole but surely its not normal to spend every waking minute with his dog especially when she never used to before.. am i overreacting or am i perfectly reasonable? He had never taught the dog manners, never gave her boundaries, and allowed her to take the role of alpha and she did. I finally told her a few weeks ago that the animal needs to find a new home. I have recently been given an ultimatum to give up him or the dogs. By commenting you acknowledge acceptance of GoodTherapy.org'sTerms and Conditions of Use. I am at the stage now where I am sick of hearing that I am a slave to my dog that my dog runs my life and that he is sick of hair on his pants I have a non shedding breed. Its so ****** up!! Grrrrr. It has been a big adjustment for me and I am trying my hardest but he feels I am unfair to the dog with the attention I give him vs my 2 year old cat I have had since a kitten. I grew from loving him to hating him! Weve been staying here almost 3 months, it has been overwhelming and stressful for us because we cant really settle because its not our place but plan to move out in December into our own flat which is in the next 2 months. It is absolutely impossible to explain love and general care for an animal to someone that utterly hates them with a bloody passion. So, she would block them off from the living room while we watch a movie and then they would bark tremendously and she would say she just has to let them inthereby making them the boss! Choosing a pet over a partner is more common than you think. Call Today! He thought I was being so mean to her and felt I didnt love her and never would. He had cats as a kid but now he claims he has become allergic. I know I need to talk to my husband about this but it would just end up with both of us being hurt and tearful so I need to address how I feel before I broach the subject with him somehow! Dont underestimate the impact it is having on him, and the quality of time you now get together. My dog ran out the room first and me second. Im truly sorry your dealing with this still jetaime. Now I have been VERY clear about where I stand with her dog. Its to the point where my husband cant stand looking at my dog. Once the kids move out and get their own lives if they want tons and tons of pets thats great I can go visit their pets. I may have said some misunderstood and vulgar things but frustration can do a lot of things to the mind. His dog is emotionally unstable, obnoxious and all around out of control. He says Im the sick one being jealous of dog. In the car with the puppy, I mentioned to my husband how much I was looking forward to getting a dog when we moved, and asked him what sort of dog he might like, wanting to involve him in the process. I dont want to be a police officer in my own house and I dont want to build a strong foundation for our married life together. I watch the dogs all day when my husband is at work. So, a hardwood floor is a nice alternative for the carpeted floor, and it can provide remedies for the majority of his worries. Then my DH would have her lick our plates. I work from home, so while she went to work and the kids went to school, who got stuck with the whiny poop machine me. Dogs begging at the table is not necessary and I didnt fight her on having the dogs in the kitchen, although they dont need to be in there while we are cooking either! Its not that I dont like dogs, it just that I didnt sign up to basically retrain a dog that isnt mine and that I cant be in charge of setting boundaries for. When I mention these things I instantly become a giant A hole. I think it is absolutely disgusting. He complains about the sounds it makes (eg when chewing a bone) or when he hears us speaking to it. This restaurant allows dogs on the patio but he didnt know that until he was there. I just had a long conversation yesterday with my boyfriend of more than ten years about my new dog. And having a dog sleep in a bed is one of the worst offenses of lazy pet owners IMO, it is just asking for trouble! We had the exact same problem except I had two dogs when I met my boyfriend. Animals cannot show spite but I am not 100 percent about jealousy. Michelle Im sorry, but the bigger problem lies with you. He has never had a pet in his life and I am at the point where I would like to add a cat to the equation. I truly Im not fan of this dog and I want him out the bed. Etc so then he began to trash my 5 year old Boston terrier that has been inside my home and never been an outside dog unless I put her out in a lead in a nice day to get exercise.. I keep saying if things are to be and work then I hope they will if not.. okay with that too. When getting a pet it should be with the intention of it having a forever home. Logan, relationships. They come out there, put their mouth at the table because we have breakfast food on there and wipe drool on the table (throw up city!) Her constant whining has left me sleepless lately and Im trying some new techniques as she sleeps in the kennel. Do NOT tell me my dog is messier than that. Besides her annoying habits such as constantly licking the floor, and herself, scratching any closed doors whenever she feels like it, etc, she was allowed by my husband to sleep in bed with us, even during my pregnancy while the smell of her would make me sick. My first dog was older when they met and therefore very sedate, the second dog was not into people, other dogs, she was very reserved, so having a puppy around freaks him out. I have always simply assumed one day I would have a dog of my own, as dogs have always been a big part of my life. Reason why? Reading through these comments, Im so glad Im not alone! My bf wants to feed it HUMAN FOOD (not suppose to) The thing, gets diarrhea every once in a while. Who runs the show you or the dog? You grieve and then another little personality comes into your life, but suicide? Because IT could die!!! Enough said. My boyfriend (22) of four years has a dog named biscuit for 12 years now. Overtime, Ive grown apart from this dog because of its flaws and my girlfriend continues to love this dog almost as much as me (Ha!). Id rather have bonded relationships with other HUMANS! But unfortunately I didnt know that and Im now invested in this relationship. You deserve a normal relationship just like anybody else but it is obvious that your not going to find it there. Lots of daily time and not a penny spared. Then you need to take action to solve whatever issue the dog has with that promise on your hand, resulting in the husband/boyfriend refusing to get rid of the dog. Regards. Im just sick and tired of this dog being higher on the totem pole than me and our kids. Im sick to death of dealing with this dog and am even growing resentment to my husband. Now you want to change that and add another? When the oldest was 4, I adopted my sisters cat who had been displaced because she got a Labrador retriever and the dogs behavior relegated him to the basement. I can only hope that your situation will improve soon mine is not any better either. If I hadnt told him I wouldnt marry him if the big yellow female lab was allowed to sleep in our bed, she would have. Those sorts of compromises just dont work long-term. So when he tells my dog to do something he freezes like he is in trouble and this frustrates my husband as well. I am beyond fed up with Bobbi! Still not the worst part, many days there is s*** in that room and on many occasions he has stepped in it and spread it all down the hallway. If you cant accept that sort of all-encompassing commitment then dont get a dog. He needs to meet me in the middle just as I have met his demands every time concerning the dog until now. The constant cleaning continues but thats all we can do. He walks the dog, feeds him, plays with him, buys him toys, and so on. Like kids, they need boundaries. If it was only a matter of fur, Id use a sweeper. Find another significant other that loves their dog, yet makes you feel special, respected, and loved as you should be treated. I was fooled into thinking that my boyfriend could have become more into pets in the aftermath of something he deems traumatic to himself. About a year and a half after dating we found out we were pregnant. I give up. My DH would tell me I was selfish. My fianc and I have been together for 8 years and engaged for 4 and a half of those 8 years. I dont understand why she even has him if she doesnt want to do anything with him. I cried the entire time when I signed the dogs over. uh yeah right. I just dont understand not loving a dog, any dog. I actually had to clean it out of the DVD player the other day. I never in my life imagined Id be going through a struggle that entailed eating sleeping and so much more with an animal.I had to put my foot down. Secondly, if its your dream to own a dog, I think you may want to expand your horizons a little bit.. It violates their conscience. I lost a child and the rest of my family has abandoned me.a girl I do had rescued a very small Chihuahua that had been seriously abused. That right there makes me feel like I am wasting my time. Say your dog is kind of aggressive toward other dogs or any other outside small creatures. It once escaped the yard I have no idea how and ; she wanted to wait until it died naturally. They seem to think that the dogs comfort is supposed to take priority over the comfort of our human guests. He lets it up to the kids to brush and bathe them which they dont do very often. Im tired of fighting over her. Heres the deal. Having anger as an immediate first reaction is primal. I do not believe that you should suddenly expect your dog to sleep without you after a routine that has gone on for some years. If you want to treat an animal like a human, then maybe you should move to Utah and marry them. im just not sure i can make it till hes no longer in the picture. I also hated it when the dog would sleep on my pillow or by my side of the bed and it was also joked about when I mentioned it. How do we work on this, she wont compromise. Am I crazy? I think it helped to hear from someone else not in the relationship how ridiculous he was being basically choosing the dog over your significant other. I am an absolute animal person and then I learned the hard way that this dog has MAJOR separation anxiety. I remember one time telling the dog to get off the couch to go get a treat from him in the kitchen, and his reply was She doesnt have to shes the queen! Hire a trainer: If your husband/boyfriend firmly states get rid of the dog due to this peeing or pooping issue, I highly recommend you invest some money in a dog trainer and perform the training. So he did. My cat generally keeps to herself but the problem is that she has the worst meow/howl noise when she wants to go in or out. But in reality.. NO. You are most likely just wasting your time in that relationship (or should I say what relationship?). To be honest with you, if we trace back to the root of this behavior, the blame might be on you. The only way I see to rectify the situation is to return the dog. Firstly, she has a medium sized dog that is a complete house dog. I recently moved in with my girlfriend. Some of them also found it odd that, as a dog owner, Im perfectly fine with the fact that some people dont like dogs. They would get along great! Of course, my bf thinks this is all cute and wonderful. She wants the dog and baby to share the room, its just so unhealthy. Like I was abusing the dog! I just want to say that I see both sides here. I used to think, if the dog and I were drowning, who would he save? When he is around she hardly gets off her bed and when he goes out she jumps up and acts normal and happy. I was never able to spoon with my husband or cuddle, since he would be spooning with one of the dogs. The huge red flag: a couple of weeks into our relationship my partner said he had to tell me a secret and that he hoped I would understand. Its absolutely killing me and I dont want to lose either of them :(. Reasons why does your husband/boyfriend wants to get rid of the dog? To say I fell in love with Oscar was an understatement, I was totally besotted by him, then 6 months later he was killed on the main road. She is putting her family first, but still valuing her pets. Ive tried to make accomodation after accomodation for my husband of five years. Thanks for positive feedback anyone and negative feedback thank you as well. Focus on your relationship and not your furry family stuff. Or pushes him down MY bed while hers is on it.. Or pushes him always off her way or freaks out about him being always in the way. My husband just seems to want me to do the same for him but without giving me anything in return, even a little bit of honesty about how he feels about things that matter to me. But, after several discussion I caved for the husky to be in the living room spring on the couch. Its been extremely hard to potty train her, if I dont take her out for 2-3 hours she will shit or pee in my kids room ALWAYS THEIR ROOM it makes me so mad. My boyfriends dog slept with us at first but my health deteriorated, to the point my doctor told me we had to get rid of her because my lungs were on the verge of irreversible lung damage, but my boyfriend refused to get rid of her so you have to find solutions. I ended up in the ER with puncture wounds bleeding all over. I went back two days later and retrieved them. Yes, large breed dogs have the odor characteristic to deal with. Best to put him in a bed in another room. Myself and my partner have been in a relationship for just over a year. All this with the power of love. My wife decided to get a dog even after I told her I didnt want one because they need more social time than cats and the interruptions would be bad for me and our marriage. I decided to just try it out.my bad mistake. I am at a loss of what to do anymore, I cant make them like each other and I dont want my dog to be scared when I am not home. So Steve got the puppy, did well to take care of it, for the first month or so. I seen cute small dogs like miniature pinschers (I had one) it was a boy. My boyfriend lets the dog basically inhale my face when I walk in the door and it totally ruins my mood, especially since he knows how much I hate it. Drool xs 2! They stitched me up and called the police, which I guess is standard operating procedure in a dog attack, but I refused to give up the information. I know he made a commitment to the dog, but I guess I thought I was the more important one and when you are giving your dogs 4 different pills and a few injections of stuff to keep him healthy, happy and strong but he is 16 years old, its almost as if he never wants his dog to die. And I made it clear when I brought him home the dog was HIS responsibility Not mine not the kids. My dog DOES sleep on my bed. He trained him to use a dog litter box & always kept him in a cage ( big outdoor sized cage that he kept in extra bedroom of his house) bc the dog was never actually house trainedpees everywhere, marks territory all over the place, poops on any rug he sees, charges after people, will bite if anyone touches his ears, will actually lay in his littler box full of pee & poop.the definition of nasty & disgusting! What?!?! Ive had to go out to the store and pick up her food the last 2 times (with his money). I know this is going to be a daily struggle between us if they would live with us. So thats another issue. Human loyalty is as malleable as clay and frankly I find it pathetic that so many people turn their noses up at these facts because they refuse to acknowledge that were basically ticking biological machines such as they are. Good for you! My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and I absolutely 100% do not like his dog. Its crazy, so what do you think is the best thing to do? Ive literally slept in my vehicle with my clothes packed many times because I refuse to be humiliated and belittled over a animal. Hes not fixed but her dog is. ie, Sorry, I cant go out, I have to let my dog out. My bf hasnt traveled in 5 yrs, and barely leaves the house all due to his dog. All I want and preach to other people is compromise and Im still somewhere trying to find that. Ive had several vets tell me to not let a dog sleep on the bed. I just dont know what to do.. Dan, after 4 years of marriage with my relationship I was subjected to being valued less than my husbands dog, it basically came down to Hes not that I to you type of thing. Forgive me when I say this but as soon as I finally was able to graba hold of him I immediately ran inside the apartment, and started to hit him on his bum bum and yell at him! both he and the clat are very dependent on my wife, and the cat even more so, as he is clingy and follows her EVERYWHERE. She also has a this high pitched bark that she does when shes in her kennel at night because she wants to get out. We have often talked about moving to the country; I would say how much Id love to get a dog and train it, go on walks with it, etc. Me. This is not a new situation but was the same as when we met. Thank you all. But weve started talking about marriage and a life together. No thanks! Im 51 years old and we have been together for nearly 30 of those, i still sexually find her atractive and dont want to go! I have two dogs when I met my boyfriend (now husband). He gets ten days leave when the baby is born. We have had discussions that he still wants to sleep with his dogs, while he knows how i feel about that. We both want a life together as a family. You are being neglected and neglect is a form of abuse. My family however took my exs side because to them he put on such a facade he could do no wrong. the puppy sleeps with us and the ex get jeleous when puppy puts his head on me. Since we have been together 7 years now, problems have started popping up. I respect animals and am even a vegetarian, I eat fish. You have to be prepared though. Chihuahuas ARE demonic little beasts. I asked my husband if hes willing to put her dog bed out of the bedroom and he didnt like the idea I feel he puts the dog before me and he even willing for me to separate from him than to compromise. Everything revolves around this dog. I didnt want him on furniture which he has done and not in our room. This is why women ends up lonely with a dog for the rest of the life. 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